Ask Miss Annabelle

Q1: “Dear Miss Annabelle, I’m a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon, and Pisces rising—and I can’t stop falling for emotionally unavailable people. Is this a birth chart curse, or am I just into pain?”

Dear Sweetheart with the Virgo Sun, Scorpio Moon, and Pisces Rising,

Darlin’, you just described the holy trinity of “I feel everything and analyze it to death.” Virgo Sun sees potential. Scorpio Moon craves intensity. Pisces Rising absorbs everyone’s wounds like spring fog soaks a porch swing. This ain’t a curse, sugar—it’s a sacred path calling you to heal.

Here’s your lesson: loving someone shouldn’t feel like fixing them. You deserve reciprocal depth. Start seeing emotional availability as sexy. Set boundaries like they’re spells—because they are.

Spell for you: Combine rose quartz and black tourmaline in red flannel. Anoint with rose oil. Whisper, "I call in love that sees me, hears me, holds me. I release the pain that made me chase what wouldn’t stay." Keep it close.

You ain’t into pain—you’re into transformation. Let that transformation be mutual.

Q2: “Miss Annabelle, My ex just followed me on Instagram during Mercury Retrograde. Do I block him, or is this the universe giving me one more chance to learn a lesson I already failed?”

Dear Cosmic Questioner,

Oh honey, Mercury Retrograde is the spiritual equivalent of a fire drill for your past. If that ex didn’t show up with flowers, humility, and a PowerPoint on how they’ve grown—this ain’t destiny, it’s a pop quiz.

Trust your gut. Does this feel like a chapter unfinished or a rerun you don’t need to rewatch? Blockin’ ain't petty when it protects your peace.

Spell it out: "I bless the past and release the loop. I choose clarity, not confusion. Let what’s done be done." Light a blue candle with lavender and clove.

You passed this test, sugar. You don’t have to retake it.

Q3: “Dear Miss A, I’ve been dreaming about the same black cat for weeks. It talks. It knows my secrets. Is this a spirit guide or a sign I need therapy?”

Dear Dreamer of the Midnight Cat,

Well bless your soul, that ain’t just a dream—that’s a visitation. Black cats are old magic, watchers at the crossroads. When one talks and knows your secrets? That’s spirit guide or shadow-self business.

Therapy and spiritual work ain’t opposites—they’re partners. If the dream disturbs you, talk it out. If it intrigues you, honor it.

Spell to connect: Light a black or purple candle. Say, "Black-furred watcher, speak and stay. Guide me on this dream-born way. If you’re a friend, then show me true—I open the door to walk with you." Then journal nightly.

You’re not broken, sugar. You’re awakening.

Until next time, may your path be lit by fireflies and your heart guarded by ancient pines. Write me again soon.

With love and moonlight, Miss Annabelle